You can’t choose who you love…because it’s dependent on how you think. Yeah, I am making not so subtle allusions to the Law of Attraction theme. If you don’t subscribe to the idea, move on to the next blog. Hard facts…the average person has at least 4 major relationships before they make that final commitment. Well, final is relative, right?
Even before you say I do, you have an ideal person that you
think will make all of your dreams come true.
Then you measure each date against that mental yardstick, tossing away those
that don’t measure up, but it is your thoughts that draws in the pool of
applicants.
Do you believe you are lovable? Do you believe love is possible for you?
If you are getting cookie cutter applicants that you have to throw in the dustbin because they trashed your romantic aspirations, look at your
beliefs.
Changing your beliefs is possible, but only if you are aware
of what they are. Get rid of that fairytale you are holding on to from grade school and get real
with yourself!
How do you treat you?
Whoever you let into your inner circle will treat you the same way.
Do you put everyone else first? They will, too.
Do you change who you are depending on who you are
with? They will, too.
Do you settle? They
will, too.
So, think, by golly, that you are lovable and fierce. Every bleeping day! And see how the way you treat yourself changes... You will dress, talk and be different.
Why not use it?
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