Who You Love is a Product of What You Think

You can’t choose who you love…because it’s dependent on how you think.  Yeah, I am making not so subtle allusions to the Law of Attraction theme.  If you don’t subscribe to the idea, move on to the next blog.  Hard facts…the average person has at least 4 major relationships before they make that final commitment.  Well, final is relative, right?

Even before you say I do, you have an ideal person that you think will make all of your dreams come true.  Then you measure each date against that mental yardstick, tossing away those that don’t measure up, but it is your thoughts that draws in the pool of applicants.

Do you believe you are lovable? Do you believe love is possible for you?

If you are getting cookie cutter applicants that you have to throw in the dustbin because they trashed your romantic aspirations, look at your beliefs.

Changing your beliefs is possible, but only if you are aware of what they are. Get rid of that fairytale you are holding on to from grade school and get real with yourself! 

How do you treat you?  Whoever you let into your inner circle will treat you the same way.

Do you put everyone else first?  They will, too.

Do you change who you are depending on who you are with?  They will, too.

Do you settle?  They will, too.

So, think, by golly, that you are lovable and fierce.  Every bleeping day!  And see how the way you treat yourself changes...  You will dress, talk and be different.

There is so much research on how our brains propel us in the direction of our thoughts. 

Why not use it?