Who You Love is a Product of What You Think

You can’t choose who you love…because it’s dependent on how you think.  Yeah, I am making not so subtle allusions to the Law of Attraction theme.  If you don’t subscribe to the idea, move on to the next blog.  Hard facts…the average person has at least 4 major relationships before they make that final commitment.  Well, final is relative, right?

Even before you say I do, you have an ideal person that you think will make all of your dreams come true.  Then you measure each date against that mental yardstick, tossing away those that don’t measure up, but it is your thoughts that draws in the pool of applicants.

OMG, I Am So Bored In This Relationship!

It is inevitable, like death and taxes.  Sooner or later you are going to get bored with your spouse.  Who knows?  If you are reading this, maybe you already are. 

The Beginning of Intentional Dating

I know so little about football, but I LOVE reading the sports section!  It is like the men’s version of a soap opera with the personalities, egos, bravado and s#$%-talking.  So, my home team, the Redskins, have had some major drama.  They brought in this young man a couple of years ago with all the pageantry the Pope is getting today.  And what happens, the first season, he gets injured and he has been that way off and on for the last two seasons.  Well, this young man made a faux pas and said he was the best quarterback in the League. (Hang in there. I am getting to my point.)

  

More Sex

Economist Seth Stephen-Davidowitz's op-ed, in the New York Times, offers that misplaced anxiety is decreasing the frequency of sex in America.  In Searching for Sex, Seth says that the number of Google searches for “sexless marriage" are three and a half times more common than “loveless marriage".